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Hallo EinzigEine,

du meintest, fast niemand käme auf den Gedanken sich als hetero zu outen.

Da gibt es einen ganz großartigen Fragebogen, der zum Beispiel in der Jugendarbeit genutzt wird um Vorurteile gegenüber Nicht-Heten auf den Kopf zu stellen und der genau das aufgreift: Wie wäre das, wenn Heterosexualität das "Unnormale" wäre? Kennst du den und spielst darauf an?

(Er richtet sich an heterosexuelle Befragungsteilnehmende):

Ich stelle ihn einfach mal hier rein, weil ich ihn großartig finde - aber falls jemand nicht so gut englisch kann und sich dafür interessiert, übersetz ich den auch gern:

The Heterosexual Questionnaire was created back in 1972 to put heterosexual people in the shoes of a gay person for just a moment. Questions and assumptions made of Gays and Lesbians that are unfair, are reversed and this time asked to the straight people.

This is a fun survey, but also an activist survey.


1. What do you think caused your heterosexuality?

2. When and where did you decide you were a heterosexual?

3. Is it possible this is just a phase and you will out grow it?

4. Is it possible that your sexual orientation has stemmed from a neurotic fear of others of the same sex?

5. Do your parents know you are straight? Do your friends know- how did they react?

6. If you have never slept with a person of the same sex, is it just possible that all you need is a good gay lover?

7. Why do you insist on flaunting your heterosexuality... can’t you just be who you are and keep it quiet?

8. Why do heterosexuals place so much emphasis on sex?

9. Why do heterosexuals try to recruit others into this lifestyle?

10. A disproportionate majority of child molesters are heterosexual... Do you consider it safe to expose children to heterosexual teachers?

11. Just what do men and women do in bed together? How can they truly know how to please each other, being so anatomically different?

12. With all the societal support marriage receives, the divorce rate is spiraling. Why are there so few stable relationships among heterosexuals?

13. How can you become a whole person if you limit yourself to compulsive, exclusive heterosexuality?

14. Considering the menace of overpopulation how could the human race survive if everyone were heterosexual?

15. Could you trust a heterosexual therapist to be _object_ive? Don't you feel that he or she might be inclined to influence you in the direction of his or her leanings?

16. There seem to very few happy heterosexuals. Techniques have been developed that might enable you to change if you really want to.

17. Have you considered trying aversion therapy?

- Martin Rochlin, Ph.D., 1972
Und hier findet ihr ihn: http://queersunited.blogspot.de/2008/04/heterosexual-questionnaire.html

Liebe Grüße
Lexa